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Coach's Corner
Question of the month:
How do I get over my feelings of anger towards my boss since my last one on one development meeting? I communicated my desire to get promoted and he said I wasnt ready. When I pushed him to provide specifics on what I was not doing, he struggled, yet would not concede. I dont want to work for him anymore yet it will be difficult to transfer to another department given the work we are doing to reach our corporate strategic plan.
Coachs response:
I realize it is stressful and disappointing to not get the support you need from your boss to reach your career goals. You are not wrong to feel the way you do if you have a track record of results to show for your work. Yet, I have had to learn the hard way that the worst thing you can do is to display your anger. Even though your boss could not justify why he said no to a promotion, displaying behaviors that he can use to further his case against you is clearly a bad move. No matter how hard it may be, you need to continue to function in a manner that demonstrates professionalism at all times.
Here are my recommendations:
- Put some distance between you and your boss for a couple of weeks to ensure you dont say or do anything impulsively. When you do have to interact, control your emotions to ensure your anger is not visible.
- If you have not already done so, create a list of your accomplishments in your current position. Ensure the list includes the actual results you accomplished and not just a listing of tasks.
- When you can remain calm, set up a new appointment with your boss. The objective of the meeting is to get feedback on any performance gaps, not to talk more about you getting promoted. Remember, he has already given his response.
- During the meeting, swallow your pride and ask your boss to communicate any specific expectations or behaviors he is not pleased with. Set a conciliatory tone to demonstrate that you really want the feedback. This is a very important step to take in the event you have to escalate the situation later. Listen and take good notes. Ask the boss for a monthly meeting to update your progress.
- After the meeting, spend time creating a plan you can execute to address his concerns. Make a conscious choice to make the needed improvements whether you think they are fair or not for the next three months.
- Set up a final meeting to discuss your progress. If you have demonstrated improvement, the boss should be ready to discuss the potential timing for your promotion.
If you are still getting a non-commitment to your career, you need to
give me a call. You will need the assistance of a coach to help you determine and execute the steps that will get you removed from a toxic environment with limited repercussions. Are You Doing All You Can to Be a Leader?
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Dear Reader,
Leadership Solutions for Today's Workplace is a monthly newsletter for professionals seeking quick and easy solutions to enhance their leadership skills. Each issue features practical tips and an article based on real world examples that demonstrate leadership in today's competitive work environment.
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A Note from Deborah Chambers Chima
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The term good to great is one of the new buzzwords used in the business environment which involves transitioning from one point to another. Typically such a transition involves identifying the current status of an environment or situation and determining the requirements needed to move up to a higher level of performance.
It is my sincere desire to see you put the necessary steps or plans in place that will ensure you reach your greatest level of success. If your experience is similar to mine, you are more than ready to make something happen that will leap frog you to achieving your career goals. Yet, dynamics within your work environment consistently seem to deter you from reaching your goals in as timely a manner as you would like. Too often I was left wondering when my next career move would be despite delivering the results that should have ensured my success in a consistent manner. The politics found within most corporate environments all too often appears to take precedence over getting your desired and hopefully deserved promotion.
Taking on the challenge of creating your own opportunities is a mindset that requires knowledge on how to strategically transition from good to great. Have you identified the gap between where you are in your career today and where you want to be in the future? Who within your organization have you identified as a conduit to help you reach success? The answers to these two questions are a good start to jumpstarting your transition to being a great asset.
If you would like to continue this discussion, give me a call. I would love to talk with you about making your transition plan one that is customized and designed to reach success.
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Transitioning from Good to Great
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In this issue we are going to discuss the rationale for improving your performance to be the best at what you do. Effective leaders learn early in their careers how to work with others to get the best results possible. As good as you think you may be at your job, no one person can get the job done alone effectively. In fact, when you get to a certain level within an organization it becomes less important what you do on an individual basis. Your focus becomes how to motivate and influence others to perform at the highest level possible. However, before you can begin to lead others effectively, your individual performance needs to be at a certain level.
Those who desire to move up the corporate ladder are first judged by the results they achieve. Demonstrating the ability to achieve business results will create more willingness for senior leaders to help you work on improving other competencies that may need improvement. Lets face it. Without having the ability to perform at a high level in your current position, you will not be taken seriously regarding upward career movement. If you are not getting the desired response to your promotability inquiries, make sure you heed any feedback regarding your current performance whether you agree or not.
A sure ticket to career success is to create a track record through great performance which will lead to the desired senior level leadership position. The most typical way to reach your career goals is to perform at a level that creates a clear distinction between you and your peers.
Most organizations do not have the expectation that every employee will fall in the high performing category. However in todays workplace, providing mediocre results could soon find you seeking opportunities elsewhere. Organizations do expect you to minimally perform at the good level. Given that most of your peers will perform in order to reach their career goals, the question becomes, what are you willing to do in order to stand out above the crowd?
If you have been guilty of just doing enough to get by or just being good at your job, I encourage you to determine what you need to do to make your current environment more challenging. The secret to true career success is to learn how to thrive within your organization. Remaining bored will set you up for the possibility of becoming complacent and possibly never being viewed as promotable. Here are some recommendations to assist you in your transition of becoming a great leader.
- Take the time to identify the competencies you must display to get to your next position.
- Always be looking at least two job positions ahead of your current one and determine the knowledge or performance gaps that must be closed in order to reach your desired future positions.
- Identify a mentor who demonstrates the skills within the highest position you aspire to and establish a relationship to get feedback on how to execute your career goals. Remember, most executives are busy so only ask to meet once a quarter for an hour and show that you are listening to the feedback by demonstrating progress. If they see you are trying they are more likely to give you more than what you originally asked for.
- The size of your organization will determine how hard you must work to get the needed visibility to be viewed as either a valued team contributor or high potential candidate.
- The smaller the organization the more visibility you have, so make sure the view that senior leadership has of you is one that is valued within the organization. Small accomplishments can stand out as significant to the success of the organization.
- Within a larger work environment, make sure you are positioned on teams or special projects that are highly visible to ensure you stand out. Deliver phenomenal feedback and expertise to the team that will allow them to create impactful results. Become known for your execution skills.
- Upward movement within an organization happens as a result of demonstrating the skills to lead others.
- Whenever possible, volunteer to serve as a team leader to enhance your ability to effectively communicate, motivate, and influence others. Always remember, it is not about you. The focus needs to be on how you help others be successful. Creating such a track record will go a long way in demonstrating your leadership skill sets.
- Always lead with integrity. Never forget how you felt when you did not get the desired level of support. Follow through on any commitments. People will remember what you do and not what you said you would do.
- Always work on your self development. Leaders evolve into greatness by continually striving to be the best. Never stop learning. Listen to self development tapes in your car, read the most current business books and put the recommended principles into action.
If you would like to talk about creating your own customized greatness plan, give me a call .
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Dear Leadership Solutions Readers,
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In 2006 I will be presenting fee-based teleclasses under the header of Demonstrating Effective Leadership in Todays Competitive Workplace. I will be sending you a short survey soon to determine your preference for the timing of the teleclasses. Please respond so I can use your feedback to present the information in a manner that will be most beneficial to you. Thank you for your continued support of my work. Keep Leading!
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About Your Leadership Solutions Gal
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Deborah Chambers Chima is passionate about assisting her clients with achieving their professional goals. Prior to launching her consulting and coaching firm, she achieved an award winning, twenty four year tenure in corporate management in the retail industry, in both international and domestic markets. Her clients appreciate her attention to detail and her desire to assist others in improving their productivity.
To learn more about Deborah, please visit her website at www.chambersconsult.com.
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