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Leadership
Solutions Coaching Corner Each month we will ask a relevant question and provide coaching tips you
can consider to solve the featured challenge.
Let's explore Part I of the need for leaders to always have a keen
"Awareness of Self & Others" as one of the key elements of
the Leadership Solutions A-C-Sİ Coaching Model.
The Leadership Solutions A-C-S Coaching Modelİ consists of three main
components and their subsets which are:
Awareness - Understanding yourself and others and the
environment to effectively solve business challenges
- Awareness of Self & Others (Behaviors)
- Awareness of the Environment
Communication - Developing the skills needed to create
greater collaboration
- Communication Skills that Invite Collaboration
- Communication of Your Vision
Support - Learning to build a support base that is focused
on your career and business success
- Support Framework for Career and Business Success
- Support Strategies to Embrace Change
Question
of the Month How can you remain productive at work each and every day regardless
of the challenging environment?
Let's first talk about why you get distracted. Situations often appear out
of nowhere which can steer you away from your daily plan. Sometimes it is the
demanding boss who keeps asking for more even though the boss knows your plate
is already overflowing. Sometimes it is the competitive peer who decides to take
you on for no apparent reason. Perhaps they are threatened by you or the peer is
stressed and you just happen to be the outlet.
Also, recognizing that there is so much to get done, you can easily get
lost in all the details. Whatever the reason for the lack of focus, as your
stress grows, you can find yourself demonstrating non-productive behaviors, such
as non-execution, without even being aware that you are doing so.
Coaching Moment:
You must always have awareness of your behaviors and
thoughts. There is never a time when you can defer responsibility of how you
react to a situation or a person. You have a choice every time on how you
respond to a distraction. Yes, even when it is the boss who wants what they want
right now. Your behavior toward the request will impact your success factor.
Here
is the Challenge:
It is very easy to criticize the behaviors of others when the pressure is
on and people don't approach you in the manner you would prefer them to. You
find yourself thinking, for example, why doesn't the boss at least acknowledge I
am already overloaded? In today's tough environment most people are wary of
vocalizing these type of thoughts given the number of unemployed people who
would be happy to do whatever the boss asks. Yet, you must step up and take
ownership over how you will respond to the distraction. Your thoughts have
permeated your psyche and you are now more susceptible to getting off track
whether you want to admit it or not.
The more awareness you have of your thoughts and how they impact your
behaviors, the less likely you are to react or respond in a manner that
negatively impacts your leadership brand.
If you find yourself stressed, overwhelmed, frustrated, impatient, or
overreacting to someone or a situation, your productivity definitely will be
impacted. You must quickly get control over these non-productive
behaviors.
The more aware you are of your behaviors and thoughts, the greater chance
you will have of stopping the non-productive cycle. One strategy you can use is
to reframe the conversation so that you strategically transition more into a
negotiation discussion versus a dictated one.
Awareness of your behaviors is a necessary element you must quickly master
in order to get to your next level of performance. If you desire to learn more
about this dynamic, contact me to set up a
complimentary 30-minute coaching consultation by phone.
Next month we will explore Part II of "Awareness of Self &
Others" (Behaviors) Leadership Solutions A-C-Sİ Coaching Model, so stay
tuned.
Call
to Action
What steps will you take to improve awareness of your non-productive
behaviors in the next 30 days? Remember, the goal is to catch yourself
before you respond inappropriately to someone or to the situation. Feel free to
contact me for a complimentary
conversation on how you can show up stronger in this area.
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